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Profiling Angela Esnouf

Tuesday, 24 April 2012

Angela Esnouf

We profile another of our phenomenal faculty, Angela Esnouf in this blog posting.  Please to enjoy!

Tell us about what you do, your work, your passions and interests

My business is called Creating Order from Chaos and that is just what I do. I love to help people get the best out of their space and their time by getting organised.

Besides helping people dig out from clutter and disorganisation, I love to travel – from camping by a river far away from mod cons to a luxury cruise in far flung places, I relish it all.

I sing along to music in the car, in the shower, even while browsing in department stores. One of my favourite things is to spend time with my family. A friendly game of Yahtzee with my granddaughter sitting on my knee really makes my day.

My personal motto is Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much, and I try to live that all the time. Part of that is to cherish the moments, the little as well as the big things.

What is your interest in MYWCS and conscious shopping?

In my work I see the effects of over- or compulsive shopping. I see people with overflowing closets but the shopping hasn’t brought happiness or fulfilment. In fact, I’ve seen those overflowing closets actually cause family disharmony, a drain on finances, and a barrier or breakdown to relationships.

From a practical point of view, unconscious shopping creates a lack of space and time. I love the philosophy behind My Year Without Clothes Shopping (MYWCS), but I also love the practical help offered. 

My lessons and resources are included in Month 10 of the program.

What will we experience from you in the MYWCS program?

I’m pleased to be a part of MYWCS.  Memberswill learn what makes an organised wardrobe and why it’s beneficial. They’ll get the lowdown on how to quickly sort your clothes into meaningful categories, as well as the most important part of the whole organising process.

Next they’ll hear about the tools and equipment that makes a wardrobe function well and your clothes last longer and stay close to hand.

It all comes with practical step by step exercises to bring the lessons home.

Find out more about Angela on her site, Creating Order from Chaos.

Learn more about the My Year Without Clothes Shopping program by visiting our Frequently Asked Questions page.  You can also learn more about our other phenomenal faculty here. And when you’re ready to join us, sign up here!

To Die For – Is Fashion Wearing Out the World?

Wednesday, 11 April 2012

I recently finished reading Lucy Siegle’s book To Die For.  Lucy is an English writer on topics in the sustainable realm, and she spent quite  few years researching and writing this book.  The blurb on the back of the book states that it “peels back the layers of the global wardrobe to reveal the naked truth about the big name ‘it’ brands we swear by and the cheap clothes we can’t live without”.

I don’t know about you, but the blurb on the backs of books, combined with the front cover, are the two determining factors that make me want to open and read page one, or close it and move on.

That back blurb made me want to read on.  Immediately.  And I’m glad that I did.  Because of the research-based and journalistic style of this book, I found it very credible.  I also found it very compelling.

This book takes us on an interesting journey.  And what was so fascinating for me was how it leads all of us who are on our individual, personal shopping journeys to a mega highway.  A mega highway that has “global consequences” written all over it.

No matter what your personal circumstances and relationship to shopping (and each of us is on our own individual path there) this book makes it impossible to ignore and deny the larger impacts of our shopping behaviours.

I’ve included the photo above for a particular reason.  This is the actual copy of the book I read, and my photographic skills being as, er, undeveloped as they are, you can see it’s not the publishers image.  Why I chose this photo was because it includes the post-it notes sticking out of the book. 

Because this book is a loaner (more on that in a moment – you’ll have your chance to be the next in line to loan it), I didn’t want to underline or highlight the passages that grabbed me – it wasn’t my book.  So I ripped off little pieces of post-it note to mark those passages.  You can see how many there are (well maybe you can’t, the photograph not being so great – but trust me, there’s a lot of them).

How I’m going to share my impressions of this book is to provide you with a sampling of the compelling and startling thought-starters that I gained from reading this book.  Because I can’t include everything surrounding each piece in this review, some of these will be quoted out of context, so please note that.  The idea of doing the review this way is it will prompt you into wanting to read the book yourself.

So here we go.  The compelling and startling thought-starters from To Die For:

  • Faster and cheaper: a fashion industry writer observes a young woman emerging from Primark (a large discount department store in the UK) with six or seven shopping bags.  She drops one of them (the handles of the bag being unequal to the task of carrying the contents).  Instead of stopping to pick up the bag, the young woman walks on.  The conclusion the author comes to is that “fashion was so expendable it had turned into litter.”
  • The author quotes young fashionistas (consumers of fashion, I take that term to mean) as having an expendable attitude to fashion.  So much so that they throw out worn socks, rather than launder them.
  • The typical retailer expects an average of four visits a year from its ‘typical customer’.  Zara, the McFashion retailer of the moment, expanding around the world at a dizzying rate of knots, expects an average of 17 visits per year from its customers. 
  • Immediately following Cyclone Katrina, many of those devastated by it were provided with emergency debit cards to the value of $2000.  The purpose of these cards was to help those in dire need to feed and accommodate themselves and conditions were placed on the use of these cards to prohibit the purchasing of non-essentials (including alcohol and tobacco).  Within hours of these cards being released, some were being used at the Louis Vuitton concession store in Atlanta to purchase $800 handbags.
  • Birkin handbags, made by Hermes, are amongst the most expensive handbags you can purchase (or rent) in the world and start at £4200 ($6700 USD) and can go as high as £11,000 ($17,500 USD).  Victoria Beckham has a collection of one hundred of these handbags, with a total price tag of £1.5million ($2.4M USD).
  • Textile production has doubled over the last 30 years and in the UK, each individual (man, woman and child) is consuming up to 55kg of new textiles per year.  By 2007, the amount of textiles the world was producing and consuming was nearly 80 million tonnes, or eighty billion kilograms.  That’s the weight that is being placed on the planet every year, which (as the author goes on to demonstrate) is not sustainable.  The earth simply cannot continue to produce this volume of textiles every year.
  • Each of us is responsible for producing 0.6 kilograms of oil, 60 kilograms of water and one kilogram of solid waste PER KILOGRAM of fashion we consume. If we are an “average” consumer of fashion, this adds up to 33 kg of oil, 3,300 kg of (non-renewable) water, and 55 kg of waste in total, per year – that’s the “cost” of the fashion we are consuming on an annual basis.  If our consumption of fashion is average.  On page 119, the author states “there is no such thing as fashion without a footprint”.
  • The Cotton Bowl in India is where much of the world’s cotton is grown.  The economics for the cotton grower are so dire (they receive so little of the profits) that this region has been renamed the Suicide Belt.  Over 10,000 suicides were reported in the Cotton Bowl in 2008.
  • The more complex the ‘finish’ on any cotton garment, the more (non-renewable) water it uses to produce it.  One pair of stonewashed denim jeans requires 11,000 – 20,000 litres of water to produce.
  • All fabrics need to be coated and finished which includes the use of oils, chemicals, compound waxes/solvents, non-renewable water and high temperature ovens.
  • In December 2007, Marks & Spencers (that most British of department stores) sold two cashmere sweaters per minute, an increase in cashmere sales of over 400% for the year.  It takes 4 years for a goat (or goats) to produce one sweater’s worth of cashmere. In 2004, the number of Gobi goats (those who ‘produce’ the cashmere) increased from 2.4 million to nearly 26 million.  The impact on the pastureland these goats occupy seems impossible to quantify.
  • Crocodile skin is a desirable material for many luxury brands.  It takes 3 – 4 crocodiles to make one handbag, a rep of Hermes is quoted as saying.  Prada processes 280,000 crocodile skins a year.
  • It takes a gallon of oil to make 3 fake fur coats.  Michigan University research states that twenty times more energy is required to produce a real fur coat as opposed to a fake one. 
  • The US mink industry produces over 80,000 mink coats a year, coming from 270 mink farms (each producing over 10,000 minks per farm)
  • 6 – 7 million tonnes of cow hide are processed annually.  About half of that is used to produce shoes. In 2006, around 14.8 billion pair of shoes were manufactured globally.
  • The global trade for second hand clothing is estimated at around $1 billion. Much of this is sold in bundles to African nations.
  • The author estimates that if everyone in the UK alone purchased one ‘reclaimed’ woollen garment (instead of always buying new), it would save about 370 million gallons of water and 480 tonnes of chemical dyestuffs. Per year.
  • About 2 million tonnes of textiles end up in landfill every year.  The average person contributes 26 pieces of ‘wearable clothing’ into landfill each year.
  • An average 15% of fabric is wasted during the cutting process.
  • In an effort to discourage discounting (not only in the financial sense, but of their ‘brand’), luxury houses resort to burning unwanted and ‘mistake’ merchandise.
  • An Oxfam and Yougov study reported that collectively, we have 2.4 billion pieces of unworn clothing in our wardrobes – that’s the number of items hanging unworn in our collective wardrobes in any given year. The dollar value of these unworn (and wasted) wardrobe items is £10 billion ($16 billion USD).
  • Nike estimated in 2008 that their carbon footprint was 1.36 million tonnes – that’s the environmental cost of producing their goods, mainly trainers.
  • 80 people will have been involved in the production of one sweater.  34 people in the production of one pair of shoes, and 90 in the production of a manmade fibre suit (in 101 separate stages needed to finish and ship it).
  • Dame Vivienne Westwood, iconic British fashion designer, is quoted as encouraging people to ”get off the consumer treadmill” in a bid to encourage Brits to ‘stop shopping’.
  • Nearly 70,000 tones of CO2 are created each year by the use of tumble dryers in the UK alone. 

Please let me reiterate that these are random pieces from this book that made me stop and often re-read the passage to make sure I had understood it correctly.  The book needs to be read in its entirety to place these pieces into their proper context.  After all, the author spent many years compiling the book and it’s worth reading the way she wrote it.

But I do hope that this collection of “holy cow, is that really true?” parts from the book will inspire you to get your own copy and read it (and make sense of it) for yourself.  That’s my intention in reviewing the book this way.

So I mentioned above that this book was a loaner.  I received it via Tulia Jack, a researcher in sustainable fashion based in Melbourne.  Tulia is happy for me to pass the book along to the next person who wants to read it. 

So – who wants it?  Please comment below and let me know – I’ll be happy to pass it along.  (and if you aren’t the lucky loanee, check it out online to get your own copy).

Protect Me From What I Want

Tuesday, 27 March 2012

Earlier this week, I fell down one of the many unsignposted rabbit holes that exist on the Internet, and found myself watching a short video piece about a new Japanese inspired store that sells “high quality” goods of a mind bending variety, all for less than $3.  Three enthusiastic shoppers were given the dubious honour of roadtesting the store, and each of them filled 3 hand baskets full of stuff they felt they absolutely had to have. 

Now this piece was intended to be a fun, dare I say, fluff, piece.  Retail experts commented on the innovative nature of this kind of shopping experience and how it could potentially put the jiminies up the big discount department stores – a throwing down of the retail gauntlet as it were.  Quite possibly, this was considered a successful story for this show.

I see this kind of shopping through a different lens these days.  None of these women were asked, before their road testing commenced, what things they needed.  None of these women were given a moment to consider what they already had and what legitimate gaps existed in their closets, cupboards and drawers.  Their dials were set to ‘Shop’ and shop they did. 

It got me to thinking about the nature of wanting and needing, a topic I have been fascinated by for the last couple of years, since my journey to understand my own overshopping began. 

It got me to thinking about how much shopping is done without any real thought.  Like the over-eater who finds herself standing in front of the refrigerator door, eating chocolate biscuits from the packet, without any memory of how she got there, we as shoppers can find ourselves hauling bags in from the car, without really knowing why we bought those things, or even remembering what we bought (“oh look – what’s this?  Yes, that’s right! I remember now I did buy this thing!” — this happened to me on more than one occasion when unloading shopping bags from the car).

We as shoppers can find ourselves filling our trolleys and baskets with things we don’t need or even want, things we would likely never buy if given half the chance to pause and ask what it is that we really want.

Often what we want isn’t to be found inside the shopping mall.  It just seems like an easy fix to a more complex feeling.

I came across this truism by Jenny Holzer (which I first encountered on Neal Lawson’s site - and I have one of our wonderful members, Leslie, to thank for bringing Neal’s work to my attention)

Jenny Holzer calls these works truisms, which is defined as an obvious, self evident truth.  Which is what got me scratching my head.  Is this true – do we need protecting from what we want? 

Or is it about digging a little deeper and discovering what it is that we truly want, and finding more long term, life enhancing, spirit lifting ways of meeting those very legitimate needs.

If what I really want is to feel that my life’s work is making a positive difference in the lives of people I care about…. if what I really want is to feel connected to other people, and to feel the fullness of life through experiences that lift my spirits….. if what I really want to be seen and acknowledged for who I really am…. then those are things I don’t need protecting from. Far from it.

Those are things I need to bring more fully into my life.  These are things I need to bring ‘front and centre’ and devote my precious attention and time to. 

Instead of accepting this magnificent piece of public art as a truism, I wonder what would happen if we took a moment more to consider what it is we truly want, the things that lie beneath the surface, that are literally priceless and can’t be purchased… and decide for ourselves if protection is what we need.  Or whether embracing is a better response.

Profiling Valery Satterwhite

Thursday, 8 March 2012

Today, it is my pleasure to introduce you to Valery Satterwhite, one of our phenomenal faculty members. 

Valery Satterwhite

Tell us about what you do, your work, your passions and interests

As an Inner Wealth Coach, Author and Motivational Speaker I teach people how to create, live and enjoy a rich delicious life from the inside out.

To the extent that we struggle in any area of our life is to the extent we are disconnected from who we really are, what we really want and our innate ability to achieve our heart’s desire.

Having had to do it for myself, I believe it is my mission to help others leverage, enrich and empower their greatest asset – the fullest expression of their authentic greatness.

My greatest joy is witnessing a client reclaim his or her authenticity, own their innate talents and abilities and boldly create and experience what they once thought was unachievable.  

I serve my clients through my private coaching programs, workshops and books. My two books are: “Money Moxie: How To Transcend The Paradox of Privilege and Liberate Your True Worth” and “You Suck! (Have You Ever Said That To Yourself?) How to Turn Your Fraidy Cat Inner Critic Into a Courageous Confident Fan”. They’re available at Amazon.com.

What is your interest in My Year Without Clothes Shopping and conscious shopping?

I believe we are here to enjoy all of the abundance that life has to offer. I also believe, as Henry David Thoreau once said, wealth is the ability to experience a free and full life. And many people think money and things will give us that ability.

Money and material things cannot guarantee our experience. Many people think that money and material things will give them what they need the most.  For example, many women shop (men ‘collect’) to feel better about themselves and their circumstance.

Typically their closets are full of clothes, many of which still have the tags hanging from them. They think that if they buy just this one more Prada bag THEN they’ll be seen as ‘good enough’, ‘worthy enough’ or ‘respected enough’. And they waste a lot of money in this constant and often desperate pursuit of ‘enough-ness’, tenaciously seeking/buying their next ‘feel good’ hit. 

What will we experience from you in the MYWCS program?

You will open yourself up to a profound shift in your relationship with money, things and most importantly, yourself. You’ll discover that the experience you truly desire that motivates you to shop can’t be found in the mall. Experiences are created from within, informed by our inner dialog.

True wealth is an inside job. If you want to experience a free and full life you have to master your relationship with money and material things.

The truth is, NOTHING outside of you can give you what you want. If you want to be seen as ‘good enough’ you have to believe deep down inside that you are good enough.

If you want to be valued and respected you have to first value and respect yourself. There isn’t a Prada bag in the world that comes packaged with self-esteem.

You will learn how to develop a sense of self-worth that exceeds your net worth.  You will shift from making shopping decisions to fill an inner need, an inner hole inside. You might still buy a Prada bag on occasion.  If you do, it will be because you like its beauty, utility and affordability, not because you misguidedly think it will somehow make you a better person or your circumstance any better.

Your financial resources will be invested in what you value most, what feeds your soul, instead of what feeds your ego and fills your overstuffed closet. You’ll feel healthy, free and fulfilled without having to whip out your credit card.

Find out more about Valery on her site.

Learn more about the My Year Without Clothes Shoppign program by visiting our Frequently Asked Questions page.  You can also learn more about our other phenomenal faculty here.

And when you’re ready to join us, sign up here!

Dear Inner Shopper

Wednesday, 15 February 2012

Today I’d like to invite you to write a letter to your inner shopper.  You know who I mean – that being inside of you who makes all the shopping decisions, who holds certain attitudes about shopping (and its close relations, like money and spending), who experiences certain emotions when shopping (or before shopping, or after shopping).  Your inner shopper is the entity that directs your shopping activities.  Yes, you’ve got it now – HER. 

It doesn’t have to be a long letter.  It might be more of a note, something jotable on the back of an envelope.  It might be a love letter, or an apology.  It might be a congratulatory missive, or a reflective piece of prose.  You might want to write a brief poem (Haiku, anyone?).  It might be a reflection on the past, or a hope for the future.

Whatever it is, it should be a connection to your inner shopper.  I know it’s easy to read this and have a quiet (or perhaps louder) smirk or snicker at this idea.  But I am completely serious.  Your inner shopper exists.  She (or he) is important.  Even if your level of awareness if firmly set to zero, your inner shopper is directing traffic – directing your attention, as well as directing your precious time, your money and your emotional and cognitive state.

Isn’t it time you got to know your inner shopper a little better?

My letter to my inner shopper would go something like this:

Dear Suzy (that’s what she’s called, don’t ask me why)

Thank you so much for all you have taught me.  Who I am as a person has been informed by you, in so many ways.  Just when I thought I had some understanding of the “me that I am”, you would come along and teach me that what I know is just the tip of the iceberg. 

You have confused me at times.  I haven’t always understood why you wanted certain things, and so bloody badly!  Why was it so important to buy those Converse animal print shoes? Or those 3 additional pair of dark denim jeans? Or that suede-like reversible jacket that I wore once and gave away?  Nothing seemed to placate you, except the purchasing of those items. But they still didn’t give as much as they took, did they?

I never thought of you as a shopaholic, but I guess Suzy Shopaholic has a certain ring to it.  For a while there, I didn’t realise how powerful you were, and how much you directed so much of my thoughts, my feelings and my behaviours.  Why did I let you spend so much time in Macys on Union Square (was it nearly 6 hours?) when the whole of San Francisco was there to be explored? 

You’ve cost me, too.  Not just money (oh, lordy me, I so don’t want to add up how much it all comes to.  A deposit on a house?  A brand new small European car?  A first class round the world trip?  Monthly massages for 3 years?).  I can only assume I had to learn those lessons through you, and beyond an extraction of the lessons learned, there is no mileage to be gained in raking through the ashes of all the $20 bills that have been burned on the alter of purchases past.

I’m who I am today in part because of you.  In many ways, nobody but you could have brought me to the point I am now.  Nobody but you could have lead me to where I am standing right now.  Would I have chosen all of this? Possibly not.  Does it matter?  Definitely not.  Here I stand.  Thanks, in part, to you.

Love

Jill

You may be surprised at what you might discover when you do this exercise.  Just reading this, you may be nodding your head and running an internal dialogue that says “oh yes, interesting.  Can see how valuable that might be”.  But that is nothing, absolutely nothing, in comparison to the power of actually doing it. 

There is a yawning chasm between cognitively knowing something and actually experiencing it.  That chasm can only be breached by taking action. You can’t learn to swim by reading a book, and no description of what a mango tastes like can ever come close to the experience of actually eating one. 

Don’t just read this – do it.  You may be amazed, delighted and enlightened by what you discover.

And if after doing this you want to come on over to the site,  here’s the link.